Is your Marriage Blessed or Cursed? The Answer Lies in Your Moment of Decision After Your Decision

“It’s in your moments of decision that your destiny is formed!” What inspiring words from the motivational speaker.

But what if it’s the moments that come AFTER the decision that really matters?

I say it’s in your moments of decision that come AFTER your moments of decision that decide your destiny. Whether you feel blessed or cursed is a result of those choices.

You see, we often make decisions in moments of inspiration. We feel in love and get engaged, we respond to an inspiring message, or we make a New Year’s Resolution. We have a moment of decision. This happens in all areas of our life.

But what happens sometime after the moment decision? What happens when the moment of inspiration wears off?

Then we feel the pressure of tribulation!

That’s when our decision gets tested. It may be weeks, days or hours after our we declared, “I will!” But it’s in THAT moment, that I’m convinced we stand or we fall.

The voice from Heaven says, “I have set before you life and death, blessing and curses, so CHOOSE LIFE so you and your children may live.”

No matter what comes against us, we have the power to choose life and blessing.

It’s our choice to not say the ugly words that cross our mind.

It’s our choice to focus on love when we are so aware of our mate’s flaws.

It’s our choice to forgive ourselves and walk in self-respect.

It’s our choice to become vulnerable and seek out a new way to succeed.

Mostly it’s always our choice to stand, stand some more and withstand the temptation to throw it all away. That pressure may last for months and provide so many blows that we feel we will collapse. But take heart. You are always a million times tougher than you feel.

The moment of decision after the decision is the place where you become refined like gold. Choose life.

Here are some keys to for choosing life and your true destiny, in your marriage and your life:

1. Be aware that the pressure you’re facing is designed to make you stronger. Your spouse is not your adversary. Your feelings of hopelessness are an illusion, and there is always an opportunity to choose life. Look for it.

2. Become determined that the pressure against your marriage was a mistake on the adversary’s part. Pressures come against us. They come from our own fears and they come from outside forces. But I know one thing personally: Every time I’ve ever felt my own marriage spiraling into a painful place, something in me has risen up, to declare, “This isn’t about us. And just for this, so help me, we will make this work and we will help a thousand other couples while we’re at it!” Get some fight in you! Make the enemy pay for messing with your marriage. You might be amazed at how quickly the blessing rolls in.

3. As you flex your “fighter” muscles, also learn to rest into a new level of intimacy. When you lean INTO what you think is a battle, you can discover amazing new things about your self. You can find out that many problems were not what they appeared to be and your feelings can change in a moment.

4. Make up your mind to do whatever it takes to move forward. If choosing life means getting coached then give yourself totally to the process. Surround yourself with a support system of people who want you to succeed. If it means spending time and money than by all means do it. You’re sending a message to your SELF when you do that.

5. Finally remember that you are not in it alone. You are not an orphan child, you are a prince with God. God IS love and there is no shortage of love and power to tap into for your victory. You already have everything you need, the steps above just help you to uncover it and walk in the reality of the blessing.

It’s in your moments of decision that your destiny is formed.

Those most powerful moments of decision are made when the pressure is the greatest.

NOW choose life that you and your children may live.

If you or your spouse has said, “I love you, but I’m just not IN love with you, and your marriage is in distress, then be sure to look into the Blow Up My Marriage virtual class starting next week. This is Dr. Corey’s Flagship program and there are different levels of support that you can get from it.

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