“Our sex life is terrible.”
“My wife is draining the life out of me by refusing me all the time.”
“It would be just fine with me if we never had sex again.”
“How can I not feel like crap when he never desires me?”
“All he cares about is sex, sex, sex.”
Stop cursing your sex life.
Stop pointing out to yourself all this is wrong with your mate, or even your self.
Call forth what you’d like to see, what you believe is truly the highest plan for your marriage.
It’s impossible to do so without an accompanying feeling of gratitude.
Let’s give examples from above.
Instead of,
“Our sex life is terrible.”
Say, feel and lay hold of – “Our sex life is turning around, even when I can’t see how!”
Instead of,
“My wife is draining the life out of me by refusing me all the time.”
Say, feel and be open to:
“Even though I’ve taken things personally in the past, I am seeing how to become more and more attractive to my wife.”
“All these issues are part of our success story.”
“I love that woman and she loves me.”
You get the idea.
I am not saying this will be easy.
Not saying you won’t feel like a liar.
But even if you WERE lying, did you know that a lie heard often enough becomes believed as truth? Why not “brainwash” yourself with life-giving thoughts?
For just 2 weeks, ask for your eyes to be opened to how often you release the curse.
Make the decision to release blessing.
I had to do this when my husband came home from the Gulf. After the first month, the adjustment to each other was suddenly unbelievably awkward.
I’ll talk more about that another time.
The good news is, we are stronger than ever, and you can be too.
Be blessed!
Gina
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat the fruit of it.” – Proverbs 18:21
P.S. I know this is not going to be a popular post with everyone. Please share your thoughts below.
| Gina Parris is an international speaker, performance coach and a champion for the Sexy Marriage. She’s the Founder of Winning At Romance and the creator of the popular Sexy Marriage Solution. Gina is passionate about seeing people heal their relational and sexual issues in order to reach their God-given potential. |
